Individuals who have been through a divorce or the breakup of a significant relationship and are now considering marriage to a new partner can greatly benefit from premarital counseling in NYC.
Whether both of you are marrying again or if one of you’ve had significant relationships in the past that have ended unahppily, premarital counseling in NYC can help you grieve and work through broken promises, betrayals, the struggle for renewed trust and help you realize your dreams and expectations for the future.
A Safe Place
One of the most important things we do at Marriage-couples-couples-counseling-new-york.com is help you feel safe enough to express your deeper fears of being deprived, neglected or shamed by your lover. We help couples to show who they really are to each other. Another way of saying this is that we help them to reveal that, like all of us, they are perfectly imperfect lovers and that a deeper, truer understanding of each other will strengthen their love.
Working Things Out
When you work with premarital counseling in NYC you aren’t just discussing past issues, the pre marriage counselor will also provide you with opportunities to discuss, role play and process these issues. This ensures that the couple, through the structured guidance and support of the counselor, will address those issues that may have been hidden, ignored or simply avoided during the present relationship.
A Realistic View
Through premarital counseling in NYC the couple will develop a very realistic view of what each other expects through the marriage relationship. Where there are difficulties or inconsistencies in these expectations the pre marriage counselor can help the couple to work through the differences.
In some cases, although not most, the couple may ultimately realize that they are not yet ready for marriage, and then they can decide to continue to work on their individual issues, continued with couple’s counseling, or perhaps end the relationship positively if this is in their best interests.
Working through premarital counseling in NYC is the best option for any couple. It is particularly important to see the services of a pre marriage counselor at Marriage Couples Counseling & Life Coaching if you, or the other person in the relationship, has been through a divorce or a bad breakup that may cloud this relationship moving forward.
